I don’t think it’s a fact of “getting your hopes up”  or “not thinking that at all” I think you should find a way to hangout with him outside of work. See if the chemistry transfers over. And if it does then after a while just confront it to him. Because if you don’t confront it to him, then you’ll never know how he feels. It’s better to go saying what you feel vs. having unspoken words. I say go for it, and to me it sounds like he likes you :) I don’t think you should wait, I think you should speak now. -Bailey xx

Maybe try talking to other guys and imagining that they’re him, so you can get used to the just of how your conversation would go. Get a couple of topic ideas, then bring one up and the conversation should just flow from there. If you run out of things to say or get too nervous you can always laugh it out and say “Oh I have to go____” And make up an exscuse. If it makes you more comfortable you could start out small conversations with him, like a simple “Hello” occasionally or something. Best of luck! -Bailey xx

This is normal, 100% normal. I know people who went through the same things. There is no way of liking other guys to help you get over him. I know it’s hard, but spending time with your other friends, like your best girls or guys would be a good distracter. If that doesn’t do anything you could always think of negative about him, put it in your mind that you don’t care for him anymore and eventually that will stick and you’ll even believe it. Or as a last resort, you could find closure with him, by talking to him and completely ending it saying all you need to. I hope everything works out! -Bailey xx

Hmm, honesty just be yourself. I mean, it is scary talking to guys at first, btu we all have to start somewhere! Just get a couple of idea’s in your mind of conversation topics so you don’t run out of things to say. And maybe you should try just talking before flirting. Flirting may come off differently the first time you talk. Good luck :) -Bailey xx

We all think that a lot. The time of feeling empty, lonely, but disregard that. You do have friends. There are so many people who care for you, weather you see it or not. Don’t feel like you have nobody because you do. At least one, I know you do. Weather you count your sister or parents as friends, they’re still friends. And well, I’ll be your friend :) -Bailey xx

Why would you feel like you made a mistake? Him showing supportive and kind is showing how much he cares for you. I’m glad that you feel close enough to him to the point of being able to talk about your past. I’m also very proud of you for quitting, it takes a lot off will to do that. As for feeling like it was a mistake, don’t feel that way! Be happy he was so kind and understanding, you’re a lucky girl. -Bailey xx

To start off, i’m very sorry that you all didn’t have the relationship you wanted, but it’s good that you were okay with it. I apologize for their passing, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still make them proud today. If you believe in heaven then you know their watching you and they’ll see what you do and be proud. If you don’t believe in heaven then just do it for their sake. Do something that you know would make them proud and dedicate it to them. Sorry to say but you won’t be able to get approval now, but there’s nothing wrong with doing something even maybe a small act to make them proud of you. I’m proud of you for being able to handle yourself leaving at such a young age. Set a goal and make them proud, I know you can do it. You’re a great guy -Bailey xx